I have posted about this same exact thing in the past but never heard a response back on. We can delete the message out of the spool, how hard would it be to have a bounce method as well. It would save me a lot of headaches, especially when the user mispells a email address and it just hangs out in the spool until it reaches the delivery threshhold and the user wonders why it took so long to get a response back.
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